CLIENTS (those I work with individually):
Just as in the case of potential buyers for Crystals, I like people who are willing to put their money where their mouth is.
I get inquiries: “what does this stone do,” “can you help my mother with her illness,” but when I ask (in exchange, or as a prerequisite for dialog) for people’s email (so I can get back to them and actually share my content), I often don’t hear back from them. Was it not really an interest of theirs, or was it so casual they weren’t able to show the common courtesy of a response to my outreach?
Harder even, to comprehend – are people who express interest in a Class or Service, but then – when they find out it actually costs money – they will disappear.
Basically, if you are uninterested in helping me to help you, then I (of course) can’t be of any use to you.
A marketing person I worked with once said she couldn’t tolerate winers – people who weren’t willing to roll up their sleeves, get a little dirty in the process – and do the necessary self-reflection & self-investment to advance their situation.
I wouldn’t put it so bluntly, but I’m realizing: there are some who dwell in a houseful of doors, but are too afraid to walk through any of them.
IT’S OKAY TO BE VULNERABLE!
I cannot blame anyone for their paralysis, it’s often well founded – a defensive reaction to threats innumerable – and stretching back through to their own childhood (and sometimes beyond, to past lives).
The present – and working with me – offers a unique opportunity to explore your own self development in a safe and supportive context.
If that’s not attractive to you, then maybe I’m not expressing myself well enough, or maybe this work is not for you.
You have to want it – not necessarily what I have to offer – but Life…you have to choose life, be willing to embrace it (or be willing to learn how)…in order to be able to move forward with my support.